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Post by melonie on Jun 21, 2013 11:45:20 GMT -5
Cleveland is my drama king. He is about the most fun dog I've had, full of personality. He has his ways of letting you know what makes him happy and what makes him sad.
When I moved the crates into a spare room, I didn't think nothing of it. I used to keep them in my bedroom. I figured it would take a few days for the dogs to get used to it, and for the most part I was right.
In the mornings when it's time to eat Cleveland still goes to where his crate used to be, and waits. Once I head into the bedroom, he follows. When it's time to crate the dogs, Winston goes to his crate willingly on command. Cleveland used to. Now he 'ignores' me. I have to go to him and bribe him with a treat and he, like a scolded child drags his paws. If I try to sweet talk him, he thinks it's time to play keep away. If I try to use my stern do it now command voice, he stubbornly lays down. Last night when I got home the poor little baby was crying in his crate. He sounds so pathetic. I'm sure the neighbors thought he was dying or something. I know he'd only been crated a couple of hours because Aryn called me when she left home.
So I'm considering putting the crates in my bedroom again. I can't have a sad drama king. It's just a lot of work moving furniture from one room to another.
I'm going to go pick up Wrinkles ashes today. I could have gotten them a week or so ago, but I haven't been up to dealing with it. I'm a wuss.
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Post by melonie on Jun 21, 2013 17:40:35 GMT -5
Oh he must have been upset today, he didn't even eat his treat. Stubborn ol' pit bull.
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Post by RealPitBull on Jul 10, 2013 7:14:28 GMT -5
Hey Mel! I missed this post, I saw that you went to pic up Wrinkles' ashes. I know how you must have been feeling, it was really bittersweet for me when I got Luca's back. I hope having them is giving you some comfort now, though.
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Post by sugar on Jul 10, 2013 9:46:40 GMT -5
I'm sorry I missed this post too. You are not a wuss, picking up ashes is a very emotional trying time. I've done it twice with my last two dogs and it was very painful for me each time. You are a little relived on one hand to "have them back home" and saddened on the other hand because it is a strong reminder. Big hugs.
On the King Cleveland front, yes he is a drama king. Tell him his crown in on its way!
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Post by michele5611 on Jul 10, 2013 15:06:07 GMT -5
Cleveland sure does keep you busy!
You are not a wuss. We have all been there and it is never easy. Like Mary said I do hope you have some comfort and some closure now.
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Post by melonie on Jul 10, 2013 15:42:31 GMT -5
When I got her ashes, I could have sworn they weighed less than my old fat cats ashes. Life has resumed a normal level of stress, and the other dogs are getting along better. For that I'm grateful. But I miss her, and I still feel guilty/bad whatever, that I couldn't do more for her, and those I counted on to help failed us. I still believe in a calm household with no other dogs and kids she would have been able to overcome her behavior issues. But I guess we all know how hard it is to find a good home for a 'normal' dog, almost impossible for one who has medical issues, special needs and behavior problems. Like Judy said, she had 3 good years of love, care, and being a part of a family. So thats what I focus on.
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